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In search of the truth: Sri Lankan adoptee Sebastian Jensen’s search for his family

Stories of Sri Lankan adoptees in far-flung lands searching for their biological families always tug at our heartstrings. Their quest to find out their biological parents and possible siblings is an innate desire some of these adoptees have as they long to know more details about their origins. Perhaps they want to feel their mother’s hug or just ask them why they were given up for adoption. Whilst many have experienced love and stability thanks to their adopted families, there are a fair few who have ended up facing a lifetime of “what ifs” because they have had negative adoption experiences.

Recently Sebastian Jensen an adoptee of Sri Lankan origin who lives in Denmark struck up a conversation on Social Media. He longs to find his birth parents and to be reunited with them.  Adopted at the age of 2 years and 9 months by a Danish family, and named Claus Frank Anderson, he changed his name to Sebastian Jensen in 2007. 

According to the frayed Sri Lankan birth certificate that he has in his possession, Sebastian believes that he is possibly 47 or 48 years old. His name on his Sri Lankan birth certificate is simply listed as Thirukumar and his place of birth is Telpallai. His adoption was processed at the Juvenile Court in Bambalapitiya in 1977 and it states that at the time of his adoption, Sebastian was a resident at the Prajapathi Children’s Home in Panadura. 

Sebastian says his initial adoption went wrong. The first family that adopted him in Sri Lanka, who are named on his adoption papers separated 12 days after returning to Denmark with Sebastian. However, he alleges that this separation was hushed up because one of the people who was instrumental in his adoption did not want any negative stories to affect the adoptions that were taking place between the two countries. 

His adoptive parents were Danish. His adopted father was a dentist (who did some social service with the Lions club in Sri Lanka) and his adopted mother was a homemaker who between the years of 1977 and 1998 was helping children at a place called Evelyn Nursery in Kandy, a nutrition centre in Trincomalee and another centre in Hikkaduwa. 

2 sisters, rescued from Cuttack’s Jagatpur 2 years ago, adopted by Bengaluru couple

One of the adopted girl is 4 year old while the other is 2 and a half year old


Cuttack: A highly educated couple from Bangalore has adopted two minor girls from ‘Basundhara’ of Cuttack in Odisha after executing all the legal formalities. The two girls had been rescued from the Jagatpur Golei Chhaka in the silver city two years ago. They had been abandoned by their parents. The two girls Lipa and Seepa are 4 year old and 2 and half year old respectively. The couple adopted them and took the two girls with them to Bangalore.

A couple from Karnataka adopted these two sisters from Basundhara through the Cuttack District Administration today and took them to Bangalore.

As per reports, the two sisters had been rescued from Golei Chhak on February 24, 2021. Their mother had abandoned them. The Cuttack district administration has not been able to find any trace of their father or anyone else. According to the law, these two sisters were adopted today by a couple from Karnataka, Rahul Isaac and Angeline Kutavilla.

Though 10 years have passed after the marriage, the Bangalore-based couple had no children. After many medical treatments, they failed and thus finally applied for adoption.

Inger-Tone (58) asks King Harald to withdraw the merit medal

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Inger-Tone Ueland Shin did not have too much hope when she wrote a letter to the royal house. Now the 58-year-old has been invited to an audience with King Harald.

Shin was thirteen when she was brought to Norway. Those who would become her adoptive parents themselves came to South Korea in 1978 to take her home.

The only problem was that the couple from Rogaland were not approved as adoptive parents. In fact, the then King Olav had refused in the cabinet that the couple would be allowed to become adoptive parents after they submitted a complaint.

Toddler girl ‘sold for Rs 2,000’ on notary agreement claiming adoption, ‘made to beg’ in Pune; 15 booked

Advocate Shubham Lokhande, who approached the police, said the toddler is the sixth daughter of her parents and they sold her because they were unable to look after her.

The Pune city police have arrested a couple belonging to a nomadic tribe for allegedly “buying” a toddler from their relative and then making her beg. According to the police, the girl was under two years of age when she was allegedly sold for Rs 2,000 and she is now four years old.

The police registered a first information report (FIR) at the Yerwada police station Wednesday based on the complaint by advocate Shubham Lokhande. They booked the arrested couple, the girl’s parents and 11 others, including the “panch” of their community, under sections 363A, 370 (human trafficking), 34 of Indian Penal Code, and provisions of Juvenile Justice (Care and Protection of Children) Act and Maharashtra Prevention of Begging Rules.

When contacted, advocate Lokhande said he received information about the toddler from his friend Sudam Nimbalkar. “Initially, I found it hard to believe that a little girl was sold by her parents for just Rs 2,000. After conducting inquiries, I learned the girl is the sixth daughter of her parents. They were unable to look after her. Hence, they gave her to a married couple just for Rs 2,000,” said Lokhande.

The lawyer further said following “consent” from the “panch” of their community, the nomadic couple took the girl’s custody just by making a “notary” agreement, saying they were adopting her.

Major human trafficking and baby adoption ring dismantled in Chania, Greece

The nine persons allegedly running a criminal surrogate mother and adoption ring on Crete through an assisted reproduction unit testified on Sunday at the court in Chania, western Crete

 


Officers of the Greek Organised Crime department have successfully dismantled a criminal organisation operating in Chania, Greece, involved in human trafficking and illegal adoptions of babies.

Two prosecutors are involved in the testimonies being collected. The first defendant to testify was a 73-year-old doctor and head of the controversial unit of assisted reproduction. Citizens expressing support for him rallied outside the courts.

On Saturday, Health Minister Michalis Chrysochoidis removed alternate professor of gynaecology (University of Athens) Nikolaos Vrachnis as head of the National Authority on Assisted Reproduction. The Authority is responsible for overseeing all assisted reproduction facilities and approving their licensing.

'Keep all administration regarding intercountry adoption files in one central place'

'What to others appears to be purely administrative paperwork, for adoptees often represents the only potential, tangible link with the first period of their lives, the people from whom they were born, their origins, an important part of who they are, a part of their identity', writes Ae Ra Van Geel. She calls, among other things, for better monitoring and retention of the administration. At Flemish level, it is expected that a decision will be made in September on the list of countries from which Flanders will adopt in the future.

Work is currently underway in Flanders on a new decree on intercountry adoption, as well as on screenings of all countries of origin from which Flanders is currently moving and adopting children, such as Portugal.


Much has been said and written in recent years about what should be important in the policy on transnational adoption, including by myself. The adoption field, that collection of forces, powers, individuals and often conflicting interests, is extremely complex. This field includes parents and their children; people with an unwanted and unfulfilled desire to have children; people who want to do 'good'; adopters; adoption services; governments in both sending and receiving countries; people who had to give up their child due to socio-economic circumstances, for example.
In response to recent current events in Flanders and the Netherlands, I would like to draw attention to a number of considerations that I believe are important in decision-making and policy-making regarding transnational adoption.

This is how I think of the recurring 'interests of the child'. This empty and meaningless phrase has been used to legitimize, condone and frame distance, forced displacement and adoption for decades. However, it has been known for just as long that the interests of the child are merely an excuse for other, less noble-sounding interests such as economic gain or fulfilling a desire to have children in the global North. This was recently demonstrated once again in an article that De Morgen published, based on written documents from the early 1970s.. The image of children as a commodity to be monetized emerges from this. In this way, money was made from deceased children and money was saved by exchanging children. Prospective adopters were also scammed because they were charged non-existent fees. The Belgian ambassador already mentioned such a lack of competence among the adoption services involved at the time. However, thorough investigation was not found necessary.

Whose interests did this serve?

Toddler girl ‘sold for Rs 2,000’ on notary agreement claiming adoption, ‘made to beg’ in Pune; 15 booked

Advocate Shubham Lokhande, who approached the police, said the toddler is the sixth daughter of her parents and they sold her because they were unable to look after her.

The Pune city police have arrested a couple belonging to a nomadic tribe for allegedly “buying” a toddler from their relative and then making her beg. According to the police, the girl was under two years of age when she was allegedly sold for Rs 2,000 and she is now four years old.

The police registered a first information report (FIR) at the Yerwada police station Wednesday based on the complaint by advocate Shubham Lokhande. They booked the arrested couple, the girl’s parents and 11 others, including the “panch” of their community, under sections 363A, 370 (human trafficking), 34 of Indian Penal Code, and provisions of Juvenile Justice (Care and Protection of Children) Act and Maharashtra Prevention of Begging Rules.

When contacted, advocate Lokhande said he received information about the toddler from his friend Sudam Nimbalkar. “Initially, I found it hard to believe that a little girl was sold by her parents for just Rs 2,000. After conducting inquiries, I learned the girl is the sixth daughter of her parents. They were unable to look after her. Hence, they gave her to a married couple just for Rs 2,000,” said Lokhande.

The lawyer further said following “consent” from the “panch” of their community, the nomadic couple took the girl’s custody just by making a “notary” agreement, saying they were adopting her.

'I might also compensate for my wheelchair with my clothes'

What does cerebral palsy mean?

“It is also known as spasticity and is a posture and movement disorder caused by damage to the brain. In my case, this is due to a lack of oxygen at birth. My biological mother gave birth on the street, after which I ended up in a children's home in Mumbai.

I was adopted when I was seven months old and ended up in the Netherlands. This is where my disability was diagnosed. I can barely walk, so I have been in a wheelchair since I was three.”

Do you feel as young/old as you are?

“Actually, yes. At least I don't feel old! I think this is because I do a lot of business and am often among people. For example, I did wheelchair dancing, I enjoy acting and I am building a modeling career.

Adopted children also need help breaking the ‘care ceiling’

Adopted children experience many of the same issues in education as children in care, notes Kimberly Clarke

Ten cheers for Floella Benjamin, Civitas and the cross-party group of peers behind the report Breaking the Care Ceiling (Young people leave care, then are hung out to dry. Why don’t we help them get to university instead?, 11 September). However, I would urge them – and anyone who is considering the issues involved – to expand their work to explicitly include adopted children.

There is no doubt that children who are adopted have better outcomes than those who spend a lot of their young lives in care, but it is a widely believed myth that adoption magically erases or reverses the trauma that children have been through, and often continue to experience as they try to make sense of their lives.

 

Adopted children are 20 times more likely to be excluded from school than their peers. This in itself is evidence that adopted children experience many of the same issues in education as children in care, but often there is an expectation from professionals (educators and others) that they don’t deserve different treatment.
Kimberly Clarke
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