If your child turns out not to have been adopted in Bolivia but in the Netherlands

The circumstances in which biological parents give up an adopted child sometimes do not match what the adoption file states, researcher Atamhi Cawayu in Bolivia noted. 'Adoption services have too much reliance on paperwork.'

A couple in rural Bolivia had a seventh child in 2008, a girl with a medical condition. According to her adoption file, the parents decided to give up their daughter because of their economic situation.

The Flemish Atamhi Cawayu, himself adopted from Bolivia, went to talk to the father for his doctoral research, which he recently defended at Ghent University. 'The man was shocked when I told him that his daughter had been adopted by a Dutch couple. The father thought all along that his daughter was living with a lawyer in Santa Cruz.'

'He was told that the childless lawyer could pay much more attention to the sick child and that she also had the money to do so. He said to me, “It wasn't really what I wanted. It wasn't my first choice. Who wants to give up their own child?''

Kidnapped

Cawayu spoke to 21 first-time parents in Bolivia. He wrote down painful stories from the past, for example about five children from different Bolivian families who were kidnapped in the same neighborhood in 1983 by a woman who gave them to a lawyer. Each time he produced a new birth certificate, which contained a fictitious name and date of birth. The children were then declared abandoned and paired with foreign adoptive parents – a profitable business.

The Hague Adoption Convention was intended to put an end to such fraudulent practices. Bolivia also ratified it and reformed its adoption procedures.

But stories from recent years are also not without malpractice. In an article included in the book Beyond Transnational Adoption, published last week , Cawayu outlines two more contemporary stories. For example, there is the grandmother who takes her grandson to a children's home because she is temporarily unable to provide care.

When she returns to the home a few months later, she is no longer allowed in. Cawayu's research quotes the grandmother: 'The professionals said: “The boy will not let you go. He asked for you like that.” I replied, “But I will take him home.” They said, “The boy will see your face and he will miss you. He will cry and get sick.” The last time I was there they said, “The boy is in another country.” '

Grandma 'left out'

This happened in 2011. Cawayu notes that the grandmother's attempts to visit her grandson are not mentioned in the adoption file. According to Cawayu, paperwork is not questioned sufficiently by adoption services and central authorities. “Such omissions are not innocent,” he says. 'They contribute to creating a social reality in which the child is declared adoptable. In addition, the file can be read later by the adoptee. He will then wrongly think that no one in the family cared about him anymore, and he will also have no basis for reconstructing his origins.'

Another story, from 2008, is about two children whose parents have disappeared from view. The children's uncle and aunts decided – at least according to the adoption file – to give them a better future in another country. But they were pressured by child protection to give up the children. The aunt's quote reads: 'My brother said, “I won't sign so you can sell my nieces.” I said, “I won't sign either.” But they threatened my sister that she would go to jail if she didn't do it. She was forced to sign.”

The family does not see adoption as a child protection measure, but as child trafficking. She absolutely wants to avoid the social worker 'selling' the children to prospective parents.

Cawayu: 'There is a large power imbalance between government officials and indigenous and/or rural residents in Bolivia. There is also a lot of corruption in the country. Hence the family's suspicion. The pressure they experience to sign the waiver can be seen as a money laundering practice. In this way, irregular adoption remains hidden, even within the legal adoption circuit. This raises serious doubts about the sustainability of the transnational adoption circuit.'

Cawayu has not yet found his own first family. Adoption from Bolivia is currently not possible in our country. According to the services that used to organize adoptions from Bolivia, 25 Bolivian children were placed with Flemish families. There may be more. Worldwide, approximately 4,000 children are believed to have left Bolivia through adoption.