Biological mother: Too late to get Masho back

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28 November 2012

Biological mother: Too late to get Masho back
28th November 2012 at. 20:38 It's too late to get my daughter back, says the biological mother of the Ethiopian girl Masho. But the father is ready to get her back. © Frithiof Film
 
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There is no question of sending nine-year Masho back to Ethiopia. It is too late - Masho have lived too long in Denmark and has been Dane.

So says Wednesday evening from the girl's biological mother, Sinknesh Haile Mariam, according to TV 2 News has traveled down to visit his mother and father.

The biological parents live in a small poor village 300 kilometers from the Ethiopian capital, Addis Ababa.

Is concerned
In a clip on TV 2 News The website sees parents become deeply concerned when they hear about her daughter's situation in Denmark.

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- After I saw the movie, I really was worried. Especially when you look Masho try to help carry a bag, then rejects her mother. I can see that Masho feel alone, says mother Sinknesh Haile Mariam.

Dad wants her home
But there is great discussion ions at home on Masho. The father is in fact ready to get her daughter back even after five years.

- I am the biological father. And I would be happy again if I could be allowed to take care of my own child, says Hussen Immishu.

The case in brief:
The case of Masho presented in the documentary "adoption come price".

Here, then, how the four-year Ethiopian girl was adopted by a Danish couple from Holbaek, although the girl apparently was fine with her biological parents.

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The biological parents, however, had been diagnosed with HIV and had been told that they would die within a few years.

This was not as free medicine from the state keeps them alive.

The documentary was followed then the girl's life in Holbaek, where it went awry with the adoptive parents, who had been unable girl's violent reaction to being removed from his biological parents - and they were allegedly did not have the necessary means to cope with problems with her daughter.

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The Danish parents ended up abandoning the girl, who now lives in orphanages.

Mashos biennial brother, who came to Denmark while her lives with his Danish parents and well.

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Biologisk mor: For sent at få Masho tilbage

28. Nov. 2012 kl. 20:38

Det er for sent at få min datter tilbage, siger den biologiske mor til den etiopiske pige Masho. Men faderen er klar til at få hende tilbage.© Fridthjof Film

Der bliver ikke tale om at sende niårige Masho tilbage til Etiopien. Det er nemlig for sent - Masho har boet for længe i Danmark og er blevet dansker.

Sådan lyder det onsdag aften fra pigens biologiske mor, Sinknesh Haile Mariam, ifølge TV 2 Nyhederne, der er rejst ned for at besøge moderen og faderen.

De biologiske forældre bor i en lille fattig landsby 300 kilometer fra Etiopiens hovedstad, Addis Ababa.

Er bekymret

I et klip på TV 2 Nyhedernes hjemmeside ser man forældrene blive dybt berørte, da de hører om datterens situation i Danmark.

- Efter at jeg så filmen, er jeg for alvor blevet bekymret. Især når man ser Masho prøve at hjælpe med at bære en pose, så afviser moderen hende. Jeg kan se, at Masho føler sig alene, siger moderen Sinknesh Haile Mariam.

Far vil have hende hjem

Men der er store diskusioner i hjemmet om Masho. Faderen er nemlig klar til at få sin datter tilbage selv efter fem år.

- Jeg er den biologiske far. Og jeg ville blive glad igen, hvis jeg kunne få lov at tage mig af mit eget barn, siger Hussen Immishu.

Sagen kort:

Sagen om Masho blev fremlagt i dokumentaren "Adoptionens pris".

Her så man, hvordan den fireårige etiopiske pige blev adopteret af et dansk ægtepar fra Holbæk, selv om pigen tilsyneladende havde det fint hos sine biologiske forældre.

De biologiske forældre havde dog fået konstateret hiv og havde fået at vide, at de ville dø inden for få år.

Dette skete dog ikke, da gratis medicin fra staten holder dem i live.

I dokumentaren fulgte man herefter pigens liv i Holbæk, hvor det gik skævt med adoptivforældrene, der ikke magtede pigens voldsomme reaktion på at være fjernet fra sine biologiske forældre - og de fik angiveligt heller ikke den nødvendige hjælp til at klare problemerne med adoptivdatteren.

De danske forældre endte med at opgive pigen, som nu bor på børnehjem.

Mashos toårige bror, der kom til Danmark samtidig med hende, bor hos sine danske forældre og har det godt.