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Looking for a home. Iresha's story

32-year-old Iresha was born in India and adopted as a baby by Dutch adoptive parents. Iresha is 12 years old when she dares to confide in someone and tells them about what is really going on at her home. At the age of 15 she was removed from her home. She spends her teenage years in various youth care institutions.

Years later, she has gotten her life on track independently. She lives in Antwerp where she attends the art academy and works on her works of art with great passion. This is her story.

Where I come from

I grew up in a family with Dutch parents. After I arrived in the Netherlands, my parents adopted my sister from Colombia. My mother became pregnant twice more. She interrupted one pregnancy and when I was 7 years old they had another son. I've always felt different. I looked different from the people around me.

When I was 5 years old, I traveled to India with my adoptive parents to meet my biological mother. This was a traumatic experience. I was too young to be confronted with my background; the different culture in India and the poverty I saw. When I got off the plane and was confronted with the people living on the streets, I had to throw up.

Report points to 30 years of international adoption mishandling in France

A shocking report compiled by two historians questions the 'systemic' nature of the irregularities that have persisted in some 20 countries for over 30 years.

Pandora's box has been opened. These last few years, the growing number of testimonies of French people claiming to have been illegally adopted abroad already suggested that such abuses were numerous in France. But the "Historical Study on the Illicit Practices of International Adoption in France" published on Monday, February 6, by historians Fabio Macedo and Yves Denéchère presents an even more shocking picture of the scale of the issue.

"This raises questions regarding the commonality of these illicit practices and their systemic nature," said the two researchers attached to the University of Angers. In December 2021, the French Foreign Affairs Ministry signed an agreement to allow them to compile this independent research report.

Their study, based on 9,600 pages of archives from the government's diplomatic collections, most of them classified, demonstrates that numerous illicit adoptions have been carried out in over 20 countries since 1979, despite the incessant warnings sent by the consular services to the Foreign Affairs Ministry. These include: "Child trafficking" and "irregular adoptions" in Chile, Paraguay and Peru. "Monthly income" offered to biological parents in exchange for their child in India. "Corruption and document fraud" in Cambodia. "Abductions," "fabrication of false orphans" and the forced abandonment "of newborns by very young mothers" to meet "the demand of French adoptive parents" in Madagascar.

Implicated for "serious facts", an international adoption organization loses its accreditation

Facts The association "Le Rayon de Soleil de l'enfant etranger", accused of "serious" abuses, had its authorization withdrawn by the Ministry of Foreign Affairs on Friday 10 February.

The Ministry of Foreign Affairs confirmed on Friday February 10 that it had withdrawn its accreditation from the association "Le Rayon de Soleil de l'enfant etranger" (RDSEE), implicated for irregularities in procedures for adopted children. This clearance was withdrawn "due to his past activities" , said a diplomatic source.

On its website, RDSEE confirms that it “will cease its International Adoption activities on December 27, 2023” , as already specified in a decree published in the Official Journal on December 28, 2022.

“The ministry, in taking this decision, considered that the repeated attacks against the RDSEE in certain media did not allow (it) to fully carry out its mission. We contest this decision, a first complaint having been filed in July 2020 and no other complaint being known to date , ”says RDSEE on its site.

An association accused of "drift"

Turkey-Syria Earthquake: Baby Girl Born Under Rubble Has a Name and Adoption Offers After Family Dies

A little girl named Aya, whose mother did not survive, was rescued in Jenderis, Syria, more than 10 hours after the 7.8 magnitude quake rocked the region

A child born in the aftermath of the earthquake that hit Turkey and Syria, killing more than 20,000 people, will soon have a new home.

The baby, who's been given the name Aya, was rescued in Jenderis, Syria, more than 10 hours after the 7.8 magnitude quake rocked the region, the Associated Press reported.

The child was orphaned by the quake, which killed her mother Afraa Abu Hadiya, her father and her four siblings, according to the BBC.

Aya was likely born shortly after Monday's earthquake, and was still attached by umbilical cord to her mother when she was rescued, per the reports.

Adoption fight as 4 couples arrested over 'fake papers' in African nation amid trafficking claims

JOHANNESBURG - An adoption nightmare, or human trafficking? In Zambia in Southern Africa, eight Croatians have been arrested twice on the same human trafficking charge. The eight are accused of child trafficking in general, and in particular of having forged adoption papers for four children from the Democratic Republic of the Congo who they wanted to take to Croatia.

Charges against the Croatians were dropped earlier this month, but they were re-arrested on the same charge at the airport as they tried to leave the country 48 hours later.

Croatia’s Justice Minister Ivan Malenica has condemned the re-arrest as "strange", saying at a press conference reported by Croatian news site N1 that he is concerned about this "very serious situation," as he claims adoption papers for the children are not forged.

"Those documents were issued in Croatia according to a valid procedure," he told reporters in Zagreb, Croatia. "In addition to the adult Croatian citizens, naturally, we are continuing to care for the children as well."

The eight Croatians – four couples – have all pleaded not guilty. The seemingly regular couples are also professionals with jobs including an administrator, an electrical technician, a medical doctor, a program director and a professional musician who is a guitarist in a popular music band.

Abandoned children entitled to same benefits as orphaned children; no distinction between them: Bombay High Court

The Bombay High Court Thursday came down heavily on the Maharashtra government for its stand that benefits like reservation extneded to orphaned children cannot be given to abandoned children [NEST India Foundation v. State of Maharashtra & Ors]

A division bench of Justices GS Patel and Neela Gokhale noted that the Juvenile Justice Act does not distinguish between a child who is abandoned and a child who is an orphan.

“We note the definition of orphans, interestingly, also includes children whose legal guardian is incapable of caring for the child. Point to be noted is that act itself does not distinguish between child who is adopted and child who is orphan” the order states.

The Court was hearing a petition filed by NEST India Foundation, a charitable trust, which sought issuance of certificate from the authorities to the girls declaring them as abandoned children.

Government pleader Purnima Kantharia informed the Court about a government resolution which does not permit certificate to be given to an abandoned child.

Chinese man abducted as child leaves billionaire adoptive family after reuniting with multimillionaire birth parents

A Chinese man who was abducted as a toddler and later adopted by a billionaire family has been found by his birth family, whom he has chosen to return to.

Mei Zhiqiang, 27, was 2 years old when he was abducted by human traffickers from outside his home in Yunnan province in southwestern China in 1997.

Mei was reportedly sold to a family that abandoned him because he was “too thin and small” before he was adopted by a wealthy family reportedly worth billions in southeastern China’s Fujian province.

He subsequently grew up with two older sisters and a younger brother, who were all biological children of his adoptive parents.

Mei reportedly did not attend university after he graduated from secondary school, opting instead to work at his adoptive parents’ hospital.

Sita Bhateja Speciality Hospital - Our Story

In 1965, Sita Devi Sachdev (Dr Sita Bhateja’s maiden name) started a nursing home in her own name. In 1969, a charitable trust was established under the name of Dr (Mrs) Sita Bhateja Nursing Home. The hospital building and all the equipment were donated to the trust, as was 50% of Dr Sita Bhateja’s income. The charitable wing of the trust was christened Sri Jetha Nand Hospital for the Poor, in memory of Dr Sita Bhateja’s father-in-law, who along with his wife, donated money to help establish the hospital.Thus, our hospital came to be. Over the next two decades, spearheaded by Dr Sita Bhateja, the nursing home established a formidable reputation for expertise in the field of Obstetrics and Gynaecology (her chosen field).

It was in our 38th year that Sita Bhateja Hospital entered a new and exciting phase with its expansion into specialities other than OB/GYN. Spearheaded by Dr Arvind Bhateja, an accomplished neurosurgeon (and Dr Sita Bhateja’s son), we have expanded into the specialities of neuro and spine surgery, orthopaedics, intensive care, internal medicine, urology, plastic surgery and maxillofacial surgery.

The surgical specialities are housed in a new operation theatre complex of world standards with state-of-the-art features like seamless interiors, hermetically sealed doors and windows and laminar air flow. We have the technology to perform minimally invasive brain and spine surgery through keyhole approaches. Our Intensive Care Unit (ICU) is fully equipped for the proper post-operative care of patients and for patients with head injuries and critical illnesses. Our new Physiotherapy and Rehabilitation Department has been designed and built with a view to the holistic recovery of a patient.

All this world-class infrastructure is manned by a team of experts who are highly skilled in their specialities and who have been weaned on Dr Sita Bhateja’s philosophy of empathetic healthcare for every patient.

In just under eight years, led by Dr Arvind Bhateja, we have completed well over three thousand successful procedures and have acquired a sterling reputation for medical excellence in our specialities.

Report points to 30 years of international adoption mishandling in France

A shocking report compiled by two historians questions the 'systemic' nature of the irregularities that have persisted in some 20 countries for over 30 years.

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Illicit international adoptions of children

We learn from the press (Le Monde 10/02/23) the delivery of a report written by two academics, Yves Denéchère and Fábio Macedo, at the request of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, "Historical study on illicit practices in the international adoption in France”.

According to the article, the Ministry of Foreign Affairs covered for almost thirty years the facts denounced to the mission of international adoption (MAI) by the French consular services abroad relating that about fifteen organizations authorized to Adoption (AIO) have arranged fraudulent adoptions under our laws and international commitments, including the Hague Convention on Protection of Children and Co-operation in Respect of Intercountry Adoption, the Convention on the Rights of the child, and the protocol to that convention on the sale of children, child prostitution and child pornography.

It is about kidnappings, making false orphans, forced abandonment of newborns, affecting many countries, such as Cambodia, Vietnam, Sri Lanka, Chile, Paraguay, Peru, Brazil, Guatemala, Madagascar…, with the key, the organization of a “real market” generating considerable sums.

While one might think that after the scandal of "L'Arche de Zoé" in 2007, revealing child abductions in Chad and Sudan had awakened consciences, while the abduction and forced adoptions of Ukrainian children by Russian families is currently being examined by the International Criminal Court (ICC), France cannot do without an introspection on illicit practices which would have been covered up by public authorities.

Also, DCI-France calls for the immediate constitution of a parliamentary commission of inquiry into the facts denounced by the report of the academics and that this one hears the public officials like those of the associations implicated and, also, the associations defending the rights of the child who have long denounced the "market" of international adoption.