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A Child of the Decree: Keeseville memoirist reflects on life in Romania, coming to America

PLATTSBURGH — Maria D. Holderman received a perfect score shortly after her December birth in 1967 Dragasani, Romania.

This seemingly routine assessment of an infant made all the difference in her life, even in her very living.

In her new Adelaide Books release, “Children of the Decree: A Journalist’s Battle to Save Romanian Orphans and Herself,” the Keeseville resident’s memoir time travels between her selves in her country of origin and the U.S.A. that offered her refuge from dangerous times in Romania.

From 1997 to 2001, Holderman was the “Diane Sawyer of Romania” (pen name Dana Achim.)

Before leaving her native country for the United States on a one-way ticket, she was a bestselling author and an investigative reporter for the National Daily in Bucharest.

I was placed in an adult hostel at 17 – and I can tell you, the British state is an appalling parent

Have you ever been so hungry you became delusional? I have, when as a child in care I was placed in a hostel a few months after finishing my GCSEs. I remember rummaging through old birthday cards in the futile hope of finding a tenner.

Despite my benefits and the job I did alongside school, I could not afford food and electricity – let alone books, school trips, or clothes. I once wrote an essay with a candle in one hand and a pen in the other. But the lack of human connection hurt most. In my first year of sixth form, I was in hospital for four days before “support” staff realised I was gone. I was 17, hooked to a drip, alone and terrified.

The state was a lousy parent to me. It does not care for all its children equally – in fact, thousands of children in the care system in England are not entitled to care at all. Once they turn 16, children in care can be placed by local authorities in shared houses with adult strangers, bedsits and hostels with no adult carers.

Before last year, children in care as young as 11 lived in “care-less” settings. The Department for Education has introduced secondary legislation which bans this – but only for children aged 15 and under. This leaves more than 6,400 children in England, a third of all 16- to 17-year-olds in care, unprotected. And it threatens thousands more, by allowing private companies to saturate the market when foster carers are in short supply.

In the absence of a government that cares, our hope rests on this week’s judicial review. Article 39, a small charity, has taken the DfE to court on the grounds that the secondary legislation discriminates against children aged 16-17. The charity is backed by more than 10,700 people who signed a #KeepCaringTo18 petition. Last week, I was one of six care-experienced adults who delivered it to Downing Street. The judge has now heard evidence from both sides, and we’re awaiting his decision.

3rd International Family Law Day in Berlin from 11th to 12th. February 2022

The Third International Family Law Day of the Family Law Working Group took place from February 11th to 12th, 2022 and was a well-attended and successful event with almost 100 participants. The presentations by the renowned speakers aroused great interest and encouraged the audience to make comments and questions - but only in the chat. Because the conference had to take place online due to the corona pandemic.

 

Attorney Eva Becker, chairwoman of the family law working group, welcomes the guests on the screen

The new Brussels IIb Regulation comes into force on August 1, 2022. It contains the rules on jurisdiction, recognition and enforcement of decisions in matrimonial matters and matters of parental responsibility and child abduction in the European Union. The regulation applies directly and is superior law to the other legal acts of the European Union: the Rome III Regulation, the EU Maintenance Regulation, the Hague Child Protection Convention and the Hague Child Abduction Convention.
Prof. Dr. In her structural comparison, Katharina Lugani from Heinrich Heine University in Düsseldorf found few radical changes, but many changes of small and medium size, few changes in matrimonial matters, but many in child matters.

 

She kept a secret during her song - and it was a matter of life and death

27-year-old Meseret Tesfamichael's song choice in 'X Factor' reflected the difficult situation she and her family were in the middle of.

On the outside, Meseret Tesfamichael radiated calm.

In this year's bootcamp, which airs Friday night on TV 2, the 27-year-old 'X Factor' contestant stepped in front of Judge Thomas Blachman in a floor-length white dress and bare toes.

If I first opened up, I knew I would crack

Meseret Tesfamichael

N.C. man and school counselor accused of child abuse, attempted murder of 11-year-old adopted son

SALISBURY, N.C. (TCD) -- Two parents stand accused of child abuse and attempted murder involving their 11-year-old adopted son.

According to the Salisbury Police Department, on Saturday, Jan. 22, officers were alerted about an unresponsive juvenile brought to a local hospital by his adoptive father on Friday, Jan. 21. Police say the juvenile showed signs of possible neglect and was reportedly suffering from sepsis, hypothermia, and multiple open wounds. The child also reportedly had an unknown mass in his stomach that required surgery to remove.

According to WBTV-TV, the child had not been to a hospital since October 2020 before the visit on Jan. 21.

On Thursday, Jan. 27, the child’s adoptive parents, Reed Karriker and Georgianna Karriker, both 42, were arrested and charged with felony child abuse. Their bond was initially set at $40,000, and they were released.

According to WBTV, on Wednesday, Feb. 9, charges were added after police raided the Karriker residence on Maupin Avenue. There were reportedly five children in the home. When raiding the home, police believed Reed had a gun, WBTV reports.

Gurugram’s 1st govt affiliated initiative, launch of adoption agency put on hold

An inspection team visited the site in the last week of January and took note of the poor sanitation and lack of amenities, and directed the child welfare council to rectify them, officials aware of the matter said

The inauguration of the district’s first government-affiliated adoption agency at an old-age home in Sector 4 has been put on hold, officials said Tuesday.

An inspection team visited the site in the last week of January and took note of the poor sanitation and lack of amenities, and directed the child welfare council to rectify them, officials aware of the matter said.

Last year, the state government had approved a proposal to set up a specialised adoption agency in Gurugram, which the district administration planned to inaugurate on January 31 this year.

Earlier, abandoned children were sent to an adoption agency in Faridabad from where their details were uploaded on the Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA) website.

Florida couple forced adopted son to live inside ‘box’ in garage: cops

A Florida couple was arrested for allegedly forcing their adopted teen son to live in a small locked structure inside the garage of their home for several years, police said.

The horrifying conditions endured by the 13-year-old boy were uncovered by authorities after the teen was reported missing from the family’s Jupiter home on Jan. 30, according to cops.

A detective investigating the missing-persons case spotted the 8-by-8-foot structure with a deadbolt lock and a light switch on the exterior wall, according to the Jupiter Police Department.

Inside the box was a bucket, a mattress and a camera.

The mother, Tracy Ferriter, claimed to the detective the space was used as an office and for storage, police said.

€225,000 awarded to man born in mother and baby home from estranged birth mother’s estate

A MAN believed to have been born in a mother and baby home has been awarded €225,000 out of the estate of his estranged birth mother.

The deceased did not include her son, her only offspring, in her will.

The retired man, who is in his 60s and cannot be named, applied to the High Court under section 117 of the Succession Act seeking proper provision out of his late mother’s estate.

His case was against his mother’s niece in her capacity as executor of the estate.

Section 117 asks the court to look at how a testator ought to have provided for his or her child in a will.

Astrid Krag on explosion in adoptions: 'We talk about cases where the parents are bad'

The Minister of Social Affairs is, as she herself puts it, on the side of the children.

The number of children being adopted away from their parents withoutconsent - that is, by force fromthe authorities - has exploded in a few years, and that is basically good, says Astrid Krag (S).

- The figures show that it may well be that we in the legislation had the opportunity to forcibly adopt, but that it largely did not apply.

That is, there were children who would have benefited from an adoption away - from getting a new one,stable and lasting family - who have not got it, saysthe Minister in an interview with P1 Morgen.

The interview takes place after Zetland has uncovered how the high numbers coincide with pregnant women fleeing the country to avoid their child being adopted away. But first and foremost, they fall in line with a political ambition.

Odisha Police arrested 3 people in connection with child trafficking

Nayagarh (Odisha) [India], February 9 (ANI): Odisha Police arrested three persons including two hospital staff in connection

with the alleged child trafficking (/topic/child-trafficking) at the Nayagarh District Headquarters Hospital (/topic/nayagarhdistrict-headquarters-hospital) (DHH), said police on Tuesday.

The accused were arrested on January 28 after an FIR about a missing newborn child was registered.

According to reports, one Jali Swain, wife of Rabi Swain of Notar village had lodged a complaint of a boy child going missing

from the DHH on January 28.