In 2001, a family discovered a baby in the arms of a young girl and disappeared into thin air The young girl is now 20 years old, and having accepted her as their own, the family still struggles with the adoption process The family narrated their struggle to adopt Rami, who is a special girl, continues
She was only seven days old when they discovered her in 2001. Nancy Amati’s late mom, a teacher, came home to find one of her nieces seated outside the gate and holding another baby she had never seen before. Rami's family: Nancy Amati, Rashma, Rami, Amati (l), Rami and Sylvia (top right), Rami (bottom right). Photo: Nancy Amati. Source: UGC No one knows how the baby ended up in another baby’s arms. “But my mom took the little one in as one of her own as that, to her, was the right thing to do. My youngest sister had just cleared high school. She fell in love with the baby and took care of her like her own, clinic, feeding (cow's milk) and would cuddle the baby in her stomach for the baby not to freeze to death. The child was underweight and helpless. Formula was not even a consideration because of the cost,” Amati told TUKO.co.ke.
They named the little girl Ildiko Rami, meaning “you are loved”. Rami was a special kid Gradually, Amati’s late mom, nicknamed “Angel, " noticed that young Rami was late in hitting some milestones. But her friends quickly dissuaded her and assured her that it was normal. Their late mom adopted her because no one else of legal age in the family was able to. “In preschool and early primary, her excellent mathematical ability as well as outstanding neat handwriting were obvious. At around age seven, she seemed rude, uncooperative and unruly. At first, we would get angry, frustrated with her before we suspected that it might be more than it seemed,” Amati recalled.
Concerned, Amati’s mom took her to the doctor for diagnosis and was informed that Rami needed special education. A school was recommended. READ ALSO 10-Year-Old Girl Hailed as Hero for Getting Family to Safety during Home Invasion On attending, Amati said they discovered that she ended up being used to care for the other special kids as she was not too badly off. But, unfortunately, her condition continued in regression. So, the family decided to pull her out. “My youngest sister, who was by then an adult, wanted to adopt her. Other than loving her, she was in a position to get her the help she needed, better health care, youthful energy as well as a break for mom, who was now retired and taking care of my sick dad. We were introduced to a lawyer who started the adoption process,” Amati told TUKO.co.ke. Seven years later and with lots of money, the adoption ‘went through’, or so they thought.
"It's much later that we learnt that it was all a sham. Meanwhile, both of our parents had passed on, and her regression was steep and rapid. She automatically came into my care. She has been through various tests, scans and all but no doctor so far has been able to tell us what the problem is. Two more lawyers later, no adoption,” Amati said.