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Adoptive parents "repented" - returned children after 1.5 years

Two parents in a Småland municipality received an adopted child from abroad.

One and a half years later, they "repented" and returned the child, who was of preschool age, to the country of origin. It reports the news agency Siren.

Now a social secretary wants the health and care inspectorate, Ivo, to answer how the municipality should act.

The Social Welfare Board must have been in contact with the Ministry for Foreign Affairs (MFA), which must have issued directives on the care of the child.

As the child is already abroad, the Ministry of Foreign Affairs must have told the municipality that the "implementation of the decision" should go through them, through a so-called "request for enforcement".

Internationally adopted people expand the image of family and Finnishness

The notion of Finnishness as whiteness challenges internationally adopted people to negotiate their identity, The Doctoral Research reveals. The Doctoral Research to be examined at the University of Jyväskylä examines the family of birth, the adoption family and the normative conception of Finnishness in the identity negotiations of internationally adopted people.

In her dissertation, Maarit Koskinen, M.Sc., examined the identity work of internationally adopted people. The research focused especially on the meanings of the family of birth, the adopted family and the normative conception of Finnishness in the negotiations on the identity of the adoptees.

Since 1985, almost 5,000 children have been adopted internationally in Finland. International adoptions are often closed adoptions, where the child has no contact with his or her family of birth as he or she grows up. Internationally adopted Finns also often differ from the native Finnish population in their physical characteristics, which exposes them to various experiences of racization, among other things. According to Koskinen's dissertation research, the identity negotiations of internationally adopted people often show both the unknown origin of birth and a different appearance from the native Finns.

Finding a family of birth builds an identity

Research interviews revealed that adulthood in particular, adopted parents ’own parenting, and encountering the family of birth were significant transitions in adopted lives. In this case, the negotiation of one's own identity was also activated.

Parents in Jönköping County repented - returned adopted children

Two parents in Jönköping County adopted a child of preschool age from another country, but after a year and a half with the child, the parents regretted it and wanted to return the adopted child.

The child is now back in his home country, but the Ministry for Foreign Affairs has issued a directive that the child must be taken care of in accordance with the Care of Young People Act.

A social secretary has now written to the Swedish Health and Care Inspectorate for the authority to sort out the question of what should be done and by whom.

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Parents outraged: Sending adopted child back

- So awful.

- How can anyone make themselves do that to a small child?

Fy for the devil

This is how Anette S. writes in one of the comments written on SVT's Jönköbing's Facebook profile about a local couple who, after a year and a half with an adopted child, have handed it back to the country the child originally came from. And Anette S is not the only one who is shaken by the case, which has led the municipality to ask the Swedish Ministry of Foreign Affairs to help:

- Damn it.

Panama: Bill Bars Same-Sex Couples from Adoption

(New York) – Panama’s National Assembly passed a bill on March 3, 2021, that includes a discriminatory prohibition on adoption by same-sex couples, Human Rights Watch said today.

Bill No.120, which aims to protect children and adolescents from unnecessary separation from their biological family, allows for adoption by both single persons and married couples. However, not only are same-sex marriages not yet legal in Panama, but the bill defines eligible married couples as those composed of partners of “different sex.”

President Laurentino Cortizo should veto articles 22 and 26 of the bill, which violate international human rights standards on non-discrimination, respect for private and family life, and the rights of the child, and perpetuate prejudices about lesbian, gay, and bisexual (LGB) people.

“Excluding same-sex couples as adoptive parents is not only stigmatizing but in Panama compounds the violation of not having their relationships acknowledged or protected in the first place,” said Cristian González Cabrera, lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) rights researcher at Human Rights Watch. “Categorically barring children from being adopted into loving and supportive families is also inconsistent with the principle of the best interest of the child.”

After passing the National Assembly, the bill is now ready for signature by President Cortizo, who has the legal authority to veto all or part of it.

OPEN LETTER TO MRS URSULA VON DER LEYEN PRESIDENT OF THE EUROPEAN COMMISSION (Marion)

I have just sent an open letter to the President of the European Commission, Madam Ursula Von Der Leyen, asking for an investigation to be opened in France and Romania on illegal adoptions since the 1980s. I invite all adoptees from of a so-called illegal adoption to write to the President of the European Commission.

Open letter to Madam President of the European Commission

Madam President Ursula Von Der Leyen,

My name is Maria Cotoara, I am of Romanian origin born under the dictatorship of Ceausescu and adopted by a French family in the 80s. I refuse to use my French first and last name because my identity was stolen without my consent. My birth certificate is false, since my first name and official name do not appear anywhere, as well as the identity of my biological family which is part of my genetic heritage. Like many adoptees, I felt like "a pawn" in my own story.

Because I grew up in a nest of lies, of "unspoken" in my daily life. These lies are everywhere, in our files, in our identities, in our stories, in our abandonments since I was told, and my adoptive parents, that my birth mother had passed away. It took me over 10 years to look for her and find her by chance. She was not dead. The Romanian authorities told her I was dead. My mother, who was in a situation of precariousness placed me in a nursery but never wanted to abandon me. She did the necessary to come and see me every day, management prevented her from doing so and forced her to sign an act of relinquishment before I was transferred to another city (400 km from my hometown) and another institution without her consent.

Adoption abroad a kind of child trafficking

In the past, children were auctioned off, which today is considered completely reprehensible. Today, children are instead sent around the globe as commodities.

The National Board of Health and Welfare in Sweden has provided figures on the mental illness of foreign adoptees, which show that almost every 20th foreign adoptee has attempted or committed suicide. Among those who committed suicide were many women. Sweden is the country that has received the most children per capita, but there is no talk of the mental illness that flourishes among them, even though in other cases Sweden is good at seeing the child perspective.

The media usually retrieve their data from research reports, but rarely interview the real experts. the adoptees abroad themselves! You almost get the feeling that we are an imbecile sheep cook who can not bring our own case. The children who are adopted are spotted as an order item in someone's almanac and then transported around the world! In Sweden, there is something called Adoptionslån and anyone who is a member of Adoptionscentrum can take out such a loan to be able to adopt children!

In my eyes, you take out a loan to be able to buy a house or a car, but certainly not children, and what happens if the prospective adoptive parents fall into the debt trap?

The children are completely lawless in this context as the states do not respect the children's rights, nation and family relations. The Convention on the Rights of the Child and the UN's so-called human rights that apply to other children do not apply to adoptees abroad. These are cold facts and are a sign that the decision-makers lack knowledge in the psychological process that is forced on these children.

Breaking: Writ Of Habeas Corpus Not Maintainable Against Judicial Order Of Magistrate /CWC Sending Minor Victim To Children Prot

Breaking: Writ Of Habeas Corpus Not Maintainable Against Judicial Order Of Magistrate /CWC Sending Minor Victim To Children Protection Homes:Allahabad

A Full Bench of Allahabad High Court on Monday held that an order passed by a Judicial Magistrate

or Child Welfare Committee sending victim to women protection homes/child care homes cannot

be challenged or set aside in a writ of habeas corpus. Subsequently, the Bench also observed that

the detention of a corpus in such child care homes cannot be treated as an illegal detention.

A grass-root activist at the Committee on the Rights of the Child

INTERVIEW WITH BENOIT VAN KEIRSBILCK, Director of DCI-Belgium

Benoit Van Keirsbilck, Director of DCI-Belgium and former President of the DCI Movement, has been elected as a member of the United Nations Committee on the Rights of the Child (CRC), in November 2020. He is the first-ever Belgian to be elected to this Committee. Mr. Van Keirsbilck has a 35-year career dedicated to the promotion and protection of children’s rights at the national, European and international levels.

He has been a leading force for campaigns to release children deprived of liberty and advance access to justice for children. He was a member of the Expert Group in charge of the drafting of the Council of Europe Guidelines on Child-Friendly Justice. In this interview, Gemma Cavaliere, from the International Secretariat asks Mr. Van Keirsblick the current challenges and future perspectives as newly elected member of the CRC.

In your opinion, what are the most pressing issues for children’s rights in 2021?

I do not think I will be very original here. We know that COVID-19 will affect children’s rights in 2021 and the years to come. Nevertheless, it is important to stress the fact that children’s rights have not always been considered a priority during the COVID-19 pandemic. In national lockdowns, for instance, the right to education was easily sacrificed in many countries, with the closure of schools and leisure centers for children and youth.

Life as an Adoptee and Her View on Ending Foreign Adoption with Minakshi Baigum | Dutch Desi

The Netherlands has decided to shorten adoptions from abroad. This is due to insufficient supervision of situations such as child theft, child trafficking and unethical conduct by officials. This is a very drastic measure for future adoptees.

In this Dutch Desi episode we talk to Minakshi Baigum . Who was adopted as a child from the Indian orphanage 'Bal Anand'. Minakshi has been looking for her parents, her family and her entire history for 14 years.

The topics discussed during this episode are her adoption process, her emerging company: Adoption Advice Bureau NL and her view on the drastic measure.

Interviewed by: Alyssa Bhawanidin

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